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blastortoise:

it’s so weird that people are shaming Beyonce for being sexual during her performance when literally in the speech in flawless says “We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are." Like how do you miss the point that bad

(Source: blastortoise-chan)


August 31, 2014

So this past Wednesday was the first day of class and since then I’ve been in an almost permanent state of mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausted. 

Just in the few days that I was at the apartment this past week I’ve had to deal with:

  • learning to start walking again after being in a cast for a month and half and not being able to put any weight at all on my left leg
  • learning to go up and down stairs efficiently so I can get to my apartment on the second floor and also get in and out of buildings on campus since they all seem to have a set of stairs in order to actually get inside the building
  • getting a temporary disabled placard and parking permit for the university since I still can’t walk very well and I definitely will not be able to walk far distances for a while
  • getting to my classes on time, which is proving to be more difficult than I thought
  • trying to unpack at least my absolute necessities so I could do things like shower, do my assignments, and cook
  • dealing with the insane heat that is constantly in my room because my AC seems to want to cool down every part of my apartment except my room 
  • spending almost two hours contacting my internet service provider and trying to figure out why our internet speed was so slow when we were paying for 50Mbps and also dealing with billing information since they put my name incorrectly on the account, which screwed with my credit check and ultimately led them to try to charge me a $50 deposit instead of taking the money out of my account automatically every month. not only that, but I also had to actually go to their office and return the modem that I thought my roommate had turned in weeks ago like she was supposed to
  • getting a temporary disabled placard and parking permit for the university since I still can’t walk very well and I definitely will not be able to walk far distances for a while
  • hounding my roommate so she would pay me her half of the internet bill for the past two months that I’ve paid it by myself (which she still has not done, and I reaaaally need the money)
  • going to the management office for my apartment and trying to figure out the details for our water bill, and also all of the apartment related concerns that I have since my roommate seems to only be able to complain about things but never actually get things done

I’m just so tired of everything already. And I’m so frustrated with the parking situation at my apartment building and the fact that my roommate seems to just not be able to take care of responsibilities herself and expects me to just do it all. I’m not a parent, I shouldn’t have to hound you to get things done. If you have a problem with something, be the adult that you claim you are and get the answers and results that you’re expecting. Don’t just complain to someone else and make your problems their problems too. 

Either way, I came home for the long weekend to spend some time with my family and do some therapy in our pool. Walking has gotten a bit easier and less painful, thankfully. Here’s hoping it only gets easier from here. 


sad-nena:

Ladies, never ever fight over a man. Fight over a job, parking space, your spot in a long line….the last chicken wing. But never over a man. Never.


northern-dontpour:

This is still my favorite of patricks replies i
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So I decided to put one of these together to refer back to and also help minimize some of my tabs.  Happy blogging dear tumblrbugs! :)
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